“Hello, my name is Eric and I’m a people pleaser.”
By far the most popular post I’ve ever written on this blog and the one that seems to deeply connect with the most people is:
Is People Pleasing Keeping You From Pleasing The Right People?
In this post I lay out some of the key signs of being a people pleaser and then offer some tips to help overcome this terrible and self destructive personality trait.
What I found interesting, though, was just how many people could clearly associate with being a people pleaser. If you read through some of the comments you’ll see that many had no problem laying out their life story knowing that they were among fellow pleasing addicts. And those who really got the message had a tone of relief as if a heavy burden had been lifted from their shoulders. Read more »
I think we can all agree that 2009 pretty much SUCKED in terms of economic development. We were expecting it, no doubt, as the end of 2008 brought us a world wide financial crash of sorts and the wind was effectively sucked out of our sails, yet I think the reality of these tight times still really blind sided us as this past year drudged on. It wasn’t this way for all of us as businesses that profited off of things like repossessing property, flourished, but I believe we all felt it in one way or another.