How To Be Successful: Secret Revealed

by Eric Hamm on December 30, 2008
in Goals, Productivity

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EDITOR’S NOTE: This is a guest post from Vincent of Hit Your Goals.

Tell Me How To Be Successful

I am always curious about which things people do that make them so successful, while others are dwindling around in mediocrity. In order to find the answer, I read a ton of books, listened to what the rich and powerful had to say, and scrutinized their actions and beliefs to find the secrets behind their success.

Successful people are always on television, describing what they are doing and how it got them where they are. Yet sometimes it seems as though the things they are doing are simple. This makes me wonder, what makes them so different?

Why are they are so successful?

Vision

Nearly all of successful people share one very important attribute – they have a vision of excelling in what they do, and have a ravenous hunger for success. The desire to become successful in life helps create distance from mediocrity.

It is this vision that makes it possible to succeed. This is the greatest asset you can have if you want to leave mediocrity for success. Without a goal, you cannot score.

Take The Plunge

It seems relatively simple to be successful but I can assure you it will not be easy. Human nature does not help because we always carry the tendency to seek the easier option.

People who have the tendency for an average life will always remain in the range of mediocrity. In order to excel, we must have the courage to take the plunge and do whatever we need to do in order for us to achieve the desired results.

Talent

There are people who think that talent plays a huge role in whether people will find successful, yet most successful people are not viewed as hugely talented in their younger days.

Do not let the thinking of your lack in talent stop you. Sometimes your talent needs to be first uncovered and then refined. Talent helps, but ambition takes you further.

Out Of Your Comfort Zone

In order to excel, you must aim for the sky, beyond what you are capable of. Do not even think about whether your current abilities support your aim. Choose things that you are not capable of and learn how to do them.

If you think you do not have the IT capability to start a blog, do it anyway. If you think you do not have the skills to start a company, do it anyway. If you think you are not able to become the best sales person in your company, do it anyway.

We learn far more when we do things we do not know and think we aren’t capable of. When we choose to do things we think we are not capable of doing, we are forcing ourselves to grow. That’s a good thing. Only by growing, can we first strive and then excel. Make it your vision to become what you want, not what you think you can be.

Nothing is impossible.

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Learn From Victoria Beckham

I believe most of you had heard about Victoria Beckham and she has a great story we can learn from. When Victoria Beckham was a teenager, she had a vision of becoming of becoming a world brand. She birthed a desire to achieve her dreams and didn’t compare herself to divas like Mariah Carey. Instead, she used the brand Persil Automatic as her yardstick.(Persil automatic is one of the UK’s leading detergents)

Look at where she is now? Her hunger, desire, and vision led her to where she is now.

The Secret?

Don’t live your life like a frightened rabbit. Go conquer those things you think you are not capable of, and always remember to maintain a vision of where you want to be. It does not matter how good you are now, what matters is how good you want to be.

Vincent writes about personal development @ Hit Your Goals. Check out his website and subscribe to his RSS feed. You won’t be disappointed!

Comments

8 Responses to “How To Be Successful: Secret Revealed”
  1. Hi Vincent,

    Nice to see you in a guest spot here!

    I’ve met a few successful people and it seems to be true that they tended to focus on their end goal, even when it seemed far from where they were at the start of the journey.

  2. Jay says:

    Of all the successful people I have met or read about, the key seems to be that they forget they are even working because they love what they do. Either it being real estate, writing novels, or running a successful company, they were simply following their hearts. Their passion was the path they took, and their hearts was their travel guide.

    Jay’s last blog post..What I learned from Being “Laid Off”

  3. Excellent thoughts! I think getting out of your comfort zone is the most important and under rated of your list. Fear eats at far too many of us and leads to inaction. Success is nearly assured for those who get comfortable being uncomfortable!

    PizzaForADream.com’s last blog post..7 Steps to Eating an Elephant (or 7 Steps to Starting a Business)

  4. Vincent says:

    @Hey Bonnie,

    Nice to see you here too! Donald Trump and most of the successful people advocate that focus is the key to success.

    @Hi Jay

    Being passionate will make it easier for us to be successful in what we do. Being passionate will help us tap into our deepest potential to make things happen.

    @Hi PizzaForADream,

    Fear is definitely a dream killer. Many people had fallen prey to fear and it is our job to ensure that fear will not devour us :)

    Cheers
    Vincent
    Personal Development Blogger

    Vincent’s last blog post..Is Analysis Paralysis Stopping You From Taking Action?

  5. Jeremy Day says:

    Hi Vincent,

    Great post! Glad to see you are starting to guest blog! ;-) I like the story about Beckham. Brands are worth more than we can measure. It’s an idea worth thinking about.

    Cheers,
    Jeremy

    Jeremy Day’s last blog post..How to Grow Money in your Bank Account

  6. Vincent says:

    Hey Jeremy,

    Branding is definitely what we need in order to achieve world wide recognition. Victoria Beckham definitely knew it :)

    Vincent
    Personal Development Blogger

    Vincent’s last blog post..Is Analysis Paralysis Stopping You From Taking Action?

  7. Hassan says:

    Have your dream and goals clearly written,and follow them with fully focus on them. Just have focus 100% and keep on going .Its very hard to get on the top.when you will get on the top, than its most amazing experience you will ever imagin.Today its great example of Barack Obama in front of us ,he knew the secret of acheiving goals for better life for everyone.
    Pesident Obama definitely knew it.

  8. Vincent says:

    Hi Hassan,

    It is definitely a great experience if we are able to get to the top. Having written goals definitely help to keep us to have a target and it also help to keep us on track.

    Cheers
    Vincent
    Personal Development Blogger

    Vincent’s last blog post..Love Your Job? No? Learn To Love It Now

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