Liz and I

The last couple of months I have been extremely busy with my business and my blogs.  Between the daily grind and the ensuing struggles ahead, my mind has been preoccupied with my own responsibilities.  In the mean time, my wife has been taking on more responsibilities as well and we are finding it hard to be able to just ‘hang out’ like we used to.

Over this past weekend we had a family lunch/get together.  On the car ride over my wife and I had one of those moments when we were on exactly the same page. I was thinking exactly what she was about to say.  Then she opened her mouth, “I don’t want to lose our friendship.”

Even though I was thinking the same thing I was still taken back when I heard it come out of her mouth.  I quickly agreed and let her know my similar thoughts.  I  apologized for letting my mind be so fully consumed by my ‘responsibilities’ and assured her that I wanted nothing more than to continue to grow this wonderful friendship we had started 6 years ago.

My wife is a very sensitive woman, but only in the best kind of way.  She immediately smiled and I could see her relax just a little.  She accepted my apology.  She just needed to hear that I too desired a closeness that only comes from a strong, mutual friendship. Read more »