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		<title>By: Kerrie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kerrie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 20:03:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I cannot thank you enough for this blog. I&#039;ve just found it this evening. It&#039;s amazing how wise words and thoughts that are so simple can influence another and give a new perspective! Thankyou!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I cannot thank you enough for this blog. I&#8217;ve just found it this evening. It&#8217;s amazing how wise words and thoughts that are so simple can influence another and give a new perspective! Thankyou!</p>
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		<title>By: Conferencista</title>
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		<dc:creator>Conferencista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 16:01:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seing a movie or reading a book can be great motivators.

I&#039;m more an auditive person, so there&#039;s some music that helps me keep motivated. Mariachi Music is my personal favorite.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seing a movie or reading a book can be great motivators.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m more an auditive person, so there&#8217;s some music that helps me keep motivated. Mariachi Music is my personal favorite.</p>
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		<title>By: ambi</title>
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		<dc:creator>ambi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 16:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article. I work with children who have autism, utilizing few different therapy modalities. One is Behavioral Intervention in which the child is &quot;given a reward&quot; after he produces a targeted response. For example, if the child does something right, he gets a toy. Another modality is floortime in which there is no reward system. Meaning no &quot;praise or goodies,&quot; but rather a human based meaningful relationship is being built through &quot;high affect.&quot; For example, if the child is playing with trains, and you playfully take the train away, the child will interact with you to have the train back. You then laugh with him, make eye contact, give the train back and you have what is called a &quot;meaningful&quot; experience. 

When I read your article for sustaining motivation, I realized it&#039;s important to develop an INTERNAL motivation rewarded by our intrinsic nature to feel good about ourselves. Many times people will have great ideas-start a business, a book, lose weight. But at the heart of it, they might be doing it to impress &quot;someone else.&quot; To get a reward from someone else. To hear  &quot;WOW great job!&quot; from another person. These are usually subconscious thoughts which give a &quot;High&quot; on motivation that eventually dwindles down. 

Sustain motivation by pursuing YOUR goals. Don&#039;t pursue ACCEPTANCE from others, because then it&#039;s not about YOU.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article. I work with children who have autism, utilizing few different therapy modalities. One is Behavioral Intervention in which the child is &#8220;given a reward&#8221; after he produces a targeted response. For example, if the child does something right, he gets a toy. Another modality is floortime in which there is no reward system. Meaning no &#8220;praise or goodies,&#8221; but rather a human based meaningful relationship is being built through &#8220;high affect.&#8221; For example, if the child is playing with trains, and you playfully take the train away, the child will interact with you to have the train back. You then laugh with him, make eye contact, give the train back and you have what is called a &#8220;meaningful&#8221; experience. </p>
<p>When I read your article for sustaining motivation, I realized it&#8217;s important to develop an INTERNAL motivation rewarded by our intrinsic nature to feel good about ourselves. Many times people will have great ideas-start a business, a book, lose weight. But at the heart of it, they might be doing it to impress &#8220;someone else.&#8221; To get a reward from someone else. To hear  &#8220;WOW great job!&#8221; from another person. These are usually subconscious thoughts which give a &#8220;High&#8221; on motivation that eventually dwindles down. </p>
<p>Sustain motivation by pursuing YOUR goals. Don&#8217;t pursue ACCEPTANCE from others, because then it&#8217;s not about YOU.</p>
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		<title>By: Korsen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Korsen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 23:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was just recently de-motivated after I completed a few minor tasks around the house after wanting to accomplish something by the end of the day. Now it&#039;s 6.30pm and i&#039;ve lost it. I wanted to see if there was some easy one or two liner that would put the wind back in my sails and here we are. After seeing the daydream I thought about how great it would be to have a few more things around the house done and it&#039;s back.

One thing that can help motivate is to start off small, or with a checklist of easy things to do. I organized my office filing cabinet after finally getting some hanging folders, I figured out how to manipulate a broken elliptical machine (that I shorted out myself without knowing it) so now we can use it again, and I installed a program that will help me keep notes organized.

And now, i&#039;m going to complete my day by doing the dishes, lifting some weights, and coming back to the computer to get started on my flyer for teaching people about technology in order to hopefully get some biters and bring some income my way.

As a last thing to think about: Save your heavy projects for the day after you complete multiple smaller tasks. Take breaks in between, and keep making progress and if you finish in the same day, what a great feeling of accomplishment! It took me three days to figure out how to setup my own server for my home network and once it was fully functional it was amazing and now I have so much more work to do - which is another thing to look out for! Once you complete something that large which generates four times the amount of work, make a list of those things and fit it into your schedule when you have some time to dedicate to it and things should go smoothly. (I need to install 2 programs over the network which is going to take me an entire day each to successfully complete, longer if I run into problems.)

If nothing else motivates you, just look around and ask yourself what minor changes you can make to help make life easier - install shelves in rooms for more space, buy some cheap laundry baskets to have around the house to dump your clothes in instead of onto the floor, replace lightbulbs with more efficient ones, get your car an oil change - doing little things can show you how much of a difference you can make in your own life and others.

Take things one day at a time, and if things get you down, just think of the future. (i&#039;ll probably never come back here, I googled, but thought I should provide my wisdom for those that do. I&#039;m 23, and I think for myself, I blaze my own paths, and one day i&#039;ll be somewhere. But until then, all we can do is hope.)

-A hopeless romantical optimist</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was just recently de-motivated after I completed a few minor tasks around the house after wanting to accomplish something by the end of the day. Now it&#8217;s 6.30pm and i&#8217;ve lost it. I wanted to see if there was some easy one or two liner that would put the wind back in my sails and here we are. After seeing the daydream I thought about how great it would be to have a few more things around the house done and it&#8217;s back.</p>
<p>One thing that can help motivate is to start off small, or with a checklist of easy things to do. I organized my office filing cabinet after finally getting some hanging folders, I figured out how to manipulate a broken elliptical machine (that I shorted out myself without knowing it) so now we can use it again, and I installed a program that will help me keep notes organized.</p>
<p>And now, i&#8217;m going to complete my day by doing the dishes, lifting some weights, and coming back to the computer to get started on my flyer for teaching people about technology in order to hopefully get some biters and bring some income my way.</p>
<p>As a last thing to think about: Save your heavy projects for the day after you complete multiple smaller tasks. Take breaks in between, and keep making progress and if you finish in the same day, what a great feeling of accomplishment! It took me three days to figure out how to setup my own server for my home network and once it was fully functional it was amazing and now I have so much more work to do &#8211; which is another thing to look out for! Once you complete something that large which generates four times the amount of work, make a list of those things and fit it into your schedule when you have some time to dedicate to it and things should go smoothly. (I need to install 2 programs over the network which is going to take me an entire day each to successfully complete, longer if I run into problems.)</p>
<p>If nothing else motivates you, just look around and ask yourself what minor changes you can make to help make life easier &#8211; install shelves in rooms for more space, buy some cheap laundry baskets to have around the house to dump your clothes in instead of onto the floor, replace lightbulbs with more efficient ones, get your car an oil change &#8211; doing little things can show you how much of a difference you can make in your own life and others.</p>
<p>Take things one day at a time, and if things get you down, just think of the future. (i&#8217;ll probably never come back here, I googled, but thought I should provide my wisdom for those that do. I&#8217;m 23, and I think for myself, I blaze my own paths, and one day i&#8217;ll be somewhere. But until then, all we can do is hope.)</p>
<p>-A hopeless romantical optimist</p>
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		<title>By: Максим Семин</title>
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		<dc:creator>Максим Семин</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:12:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Я практически случайно зашел на этот сайт, но вот обосновался тут надолго. Задержался, потому что все очень интересно. Обязательно скажу о вас всем своим знакомым.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Я практически случайно зашел на этот сайт, но вот обосновался тут надолго. Задержался, потому что все очень интересно. Обязательно скажу о вас всем своим знакомым.</p>
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		<title>By: Labor Day Weekend &#8211; Summer Sendoff &#124; Bunny got Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Labor Day Weekend &#8211; Summer Sendoff &#124; Bunny got Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 00:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Eric Hamm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric Hamm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 19:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent point Chris.  I think we often let this kind of &#039;static/burden energy&#039; build up and it&#039;s definitely important that we displace it or even transform it into a new kind of positive energy.

Great advice too on the breathing technique.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts. :-)  Eric</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent point Chris.  I think we often let this kind of &#8216;static/burden energy&#8217; build up and it&#8217;s definitely important that we displace it or even transform it into a new kind of positive energy.</p>
<p>Great advice too on the breathing technique.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts. <img src='http://motivatethyself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   Eric</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Edgar &#124; Purpose Power Coaching</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Edgar &#124; Purpose Power Coaching</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had an interesting exchange with someone recently who was complaining of a lack of motivation -- I had the instinct to ask her &quot;what does lack of motivation feel like?&quot; and sure enough, she said it was this heavy feeling in her shoulders.  So we had her breathe into her shoulders and upper chest and she found the &quot;lack of motivation&quot; feeling starting to move and change.  But now I am rambling -- the contribution I wanted to make was that moving stuck energy like this can be a motivator.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had an interesting exchange with someone recently who was complaining of a lack of motivation &#8212; I had the instinct to ask her &#8220;what does lack of motivation feel like?&#8221; and sure enough, she said it was this heavy feeling in her shoulders.  So we had her breathe into her shoulders and upper chest and she found the &#8220;lack of motivation&#8221; feeling starting to move and change.  But now I am rambling &#8212; the contribution I wanted to make was that moving stuck energy like this can be a motivator.</p>
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		<title>By: Usman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Usman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 11:52:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the picture. You might want to take a look at my blog post about motivation &lt;a href=&quot;http://burnfatnbuildmuscle.blogspot.com/2009/08/top-4-methods-in-increase-hgh.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. It might be useful :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the picture. You might want to take a look at my blog post about motivation <a href="http://burnfatnbuildmuscle.blogspot.com/2009/08/top-4-methods-in-increase-hgh.html" rel="nofollow">here</a>. It might be useful <img src='http://motivatethyself.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ali Hale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ali Hale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 16:24:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Dimitar! Yes, I often find that focusing on the reason for something is a great way to get motivated. Even if there isn&#039;t much in it for you, there&#039;s normally someone else you&#039;ll be helping out in the process of getting that &quot;thing&quot; done.

Jonathan, thanks for the reminder about visualisation. I find that this works well for me in conjunction with other methods -- visualisation alone doesn&#039;t tend to do it when I&#039;m feeling really lethargic about my goals!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Dimitar! Yes, I often find that focusing on the reason for something is a great way to get motivated. Even if there isn&#8217;t much in it for you, there&#8217;s normally someone else you&#8217;ll be helping out in the process of getting that &#8220;thing&#8221; done.</p>
<p>Jonathan, thanks for the reminder about visualisation. I find that this works well for me in conjunction with other methods &#8212; visualisation alone doesn&#8217;t tend to do it when I&#8217;m feeling really lethargic about my goals!</p>
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